Thursday, 12 July 2018

I'VE CHANGED AND THAT'S OK

francisca rockey, lifestyle blogger, fitness blogger, beauty blogger, small blogger, change, acceptance, growth
This post was inspired by a tweet @hello_october_ retweeted on Twitter. It read, '6 months from now you can be in a completely different space, mentally, spiritually and financially'- It got me thinking, I've changed and that's OK!

As you move through different stages of your life, you change. I am not the same person who I was 5 years ago, 2 years ago or even a month ago and that's OK! I have noticed that bloggers and influencers get a lot of stick for being different to the person they were when they first started their platform and I just don't get it. Change is a sign of growth. If I was still the same insecure 14-year-old who I was when I first started this blog then I wouldn't be where I am now. I have learnt how to be confident, how to love myself and through that, I have developed as a person. 

Everyone changes over the course of time. Some people, change for the better and others change for the worst.

This time last year, I was in the first year of college. I have a small group of friends who I thought I'd be friends with forever. I was single and had just started taking interest in the opposite sex. I was outgoing. In a year,  I am no longer friends with anyone from that small group of friends, so we weren't meant to be friends forever. I am no longer single, I have been dating mystery man since January and things seem to be going well. I am no longer as outgoing as I was, is there such thing as an outgoing introvert? 'Cause, I think that's the best way to describe me. 

I've changed and that's OK! I am now a person who is happy, accepts herself, has learned to love and be loved, and a person who is continually striving to better themselves to reach their full potential. 6 months from now, I will be at university and God knows what type of person I will be then. 

Fran
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